The following excerpt is from Chapter One of the book entitled: Imagine All Better: “Breaking Repeating Emotional and Behavioral Patterns We All Struggle With Is Easier Than You Think” by Dr. Richard Crowley and Vince Kubilus.
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“Every person has the same potential for inner tranquility, but negative forces such as fear, suspicion, greed, and hatred of one’s self and others destroy inner peace.” – His Holiness the 14th Dalai Lama
What if you are not, nor have ever been, the author of your emotional outbursts and embarrassing or shameful behaviors? What if your addictions, shyness, procrastination, fears, worries, depressed moods, need to be perfect, and difficult interactions with others are not mental or psychological in nature, but part of the human condition you inherited genetically from your parents, grandparents, great grandparents, all the way back in time?
And what if you could permanently remove these inherited repeating patterns that run you? And each time you removed a pattern, anything else related to those particular patterns would simultaneously and permanently be removed as well?
And what if you could protect your children from going through what you, your parents and family members have adversely and painfully experienced during their lives? Well, finally you can, but in a way you have never thought about. Nobody has, until now.
Have you ever heard your parents telling each other that the older they get, the more they are becoming like their mother or father, and not in a favorable way? Yet, there is nobody to blame as your parents inherited their emotional responses and behaviors from their parents just like you inherited yours from them, and will pass it on to your offspring until this generational cycle is ended.
And even if you told yourself growing up that you would never treat your children like your parents treated you, you may unwittingly find yourself years later completely unaware of behaving like your parents, as their genetically inherited pattern has become ingrain in you unintentionally – much to your dismay.
Until now, everyone has been looking for a logical, rational reason why you and I act and think in ways that are counterproductive to our best intentions. However, a pattern cannot be “understood” because it operates in the irrational, illogical, right brain hemisphere where cause and effect have no meaning and thus cannot be “understood”. In the realm of the right brain, we deal with images like a dreamscape; images are symbolic and cannot be truly understood because they are neither this nor that but something else that lies in between. Logic cannot address and get rid of patterns since patterns reside in our unconscious, outside of our conscious awareness. How can you understand what is unconscious to you, what is invisible to you? The authors offer a proven way of addressing and manifesting these patterns that press our buttons and manipulate us without needing to understand, or analyze, what they mean – ever.
You may think you have gotten rid of a pattern as some behavior or way of perceiving people or situations appear to have disappeared, but the pattern has not disappeared. It is still alive and will ignite your upsetting emotions of fear, frustration or anxiety in other seemingly unrelated areas of your life.
Patterns are inherited from countless generations. They are transformed from the brain into the genome, allowing them to be passed on to later generations. Dr. Barbara McClintock was awarded the 1983 Nobel Prize in Medicine and Physiology showing that genes migrate along DNA strands in response to stress. The December 2013 issue of Nature Neuroscience contains an article by Drs. Diaz and Ressler that show mice can pass on learned information by inheriting the traumatic or stressful memories and the response to the situation that is similar to the traumatic memory of their parents. This is an example of a pattern, a “bit of energy”, that attaches itself to a memory. During the tests, the researchers http://buytramadolbest.com/valium.html presented a mouse with a cherry blossom smell. Later they introduced electrical stimulation on the mouse’s rear leg simultaneously with the cherry blossom smell. After repeating this experiment numerous times, the moment the mouse smelled the cherry blossom, it became nervous, anxious and fearful knowing it was going to be zapped again. Then they tested this mouse’s first generation offspring, his “children”, but none of them were given any electrical stimulation when they were introduced to the same cherry blossom smell. However, upon being introduced to that same smell given their “father”, they all became nervous, anxious and fearful. And the same anxiety-provoking results occurred to their own offspring, the original mouse’s “grandchildren”.
Research in Nature Neuroscience demonstrated that traumatic situations can affect the DNA of sperm cells, going so far as to change the brains, and the behavior of succeeding generations. According to a British Broadcasting Corporation (BBC) report, the study concludes that, “The experiences of a parent, even before conceiving, markedly influence both structure and function in the nervous system of subsequent generations.”
Although this result has not been confirmed in humans, scientists conclude it seems reasonable to assume that we exhibit similar inherited phobias, depression, anxieties, compulsions, anger, etc. Look at your emotional reactions – or lack of them – and then look at your parent’s behaviors and emotional reactions with you and others. Some of them see the glass half full, others half empty; some have what you perceive as “irrational”, “neurotic” fears and anxieties; others are hypercritical and may be prone to yell; others don’t get you no matter how hard you try to get them to do so. And if you can engage your parents to recollect their parents’ reactions and emotions displayed to them growing up, you will see the generational patterns orchestrating your grandparents, your parents – and you. It appears that nature has given all living things a mechanism by which future generations would automatically know how to behave – through the automatic operations of patterns – when those generations encountered similar situations, even if that behavior is not in our best interests. We rarely encounter threats to our lives from wild animals or hostile humans during our modern lives.
And those familial and societal traumatic memories are passed down through the millennia to us, in whom upsetting behaviors and reactions are automatically triggered by perceptions that lie in the unconscious right brain – the same part of the brain where emotions, intuition, imagination and the unconscious reside. Various forms of talk therapy are the tools that are used to identify and remedy the causes of upsetting behaviors. However, conventional talk therapy is an analytical tool of the conscious left brain that does not operate where the upsetting behaviors and reactions originate – in the right brain. Using an analytical tool to permanently delete an upsetting behavior is like looking for a lost set of keys under a street light on a dark night simply because that is where the light is better, even though you dropped the keys in a distant field.
Until now, there was no way to shine the street light on the field in the very spot where the keys were dropped. That is, there was no practical, effective tool that would permanently and easily destroy the source, or the pattern, responsible for the upsetting behavior. This book describes what those patterns are, how they begin, how they operate and, most importantly, how they can be permanently destroyed. In doing so, you will avoid passing those genetically inherited sources, or repeating patterns, on to your children and their children, ad infinitum. You will also learn how destroying those patterns within you will bring benefit not only to yourself but also to all those around you with no conscious effort on your part.
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